What we mean is living a life where the world-out-there still does it’s same crazy daily dance, but we are fully capable of and well-practiced at maintaining a sense of authentic balance within ourselves.
We make that distinction - “authentic balance” - because, as you probably know, we are all perfectly capable of presenting an image of “balanced” to the rest of the world while our insides churn. That’s called inauthenticity. We don't dig that. And that’s not what we’re talking about.